How do we balance Duality?
Masculine and Feminine are two ends of a dipole. And like all dualities, they must find their balance point. Neither side of a duality automatically balances the other.
Unless the perfect point of balance is found, namely the third point, all that happens is we perpetuate the seesaw. Flipping to and fro between each end of the dipole duality. There is a reason the Divine manifests in Trinity.
At present, we see the ugliness of the less evolved masculine qualities in dominance – however we do not want to flip back to the less evolved feminine qualities in dominance – we need true balance.
Balance is the Golden Quality of the Heart.
For something to be Heart Based, it means it expresses as Love and Wisdom – qualities of the Heart – neither of which are the sole propriety of any sex, gender, or sexuality.
Note: I am not including Race in this list, for there is no such thing as different races on Earth and therefore no such thing as Racism. There is only one race on Earth – the Human Race! What we call racism is actually Nationalism – erroneously named.
So perhaps I could restate the former:
Neither Love nor Wisdom are the sole propriety of any sex, gender, sexuality, nation, or even religion. No, Love is Universal!
The Soul or Higher Self has no sex
It also has no gender and no sexual orientation. A human being is reborn again and again as every different sex, gender, sexuality and in every nation, throughout its many incarnations.
To be identified as or with the sex of your body, as any particular gender, sexuality or nationality, means you are identifying as your current personality vehicle – Not as the True Self that has incarnated into the three worlds, and uses the personality for experience and growth. And NOT as the Soul – the source of causality that brought you into existence!
To identify as a man or a woman, as a member of this nation or that, or any other limited identity, is akin to believing you are a physical body alone; denying your emotional body, denying your mind, denying your Soul. Of course we are all of these parts and more, so is it wise to anchor your identity into, or as, any part of yourself? Does this not clearly limit your expression and all you will have access to?
We must strive to expand our conscious awareness, not contract it.
We do this through opening our identification to and with higher and higher parts of ourselves. If we choose an identity that is limited to this one particular incarnated personality, or any part of this self, are we not then limited to its patterns, its consciousness, energies and skills? To know what we are truly capable of, we must know the vastness of who we are – and aspire to embody that.
Even identifying as human has its own inherent limitations – for we are, in the final analysis, spirits, choosing to incarnate into these personality vehicles, on Earth. Until we recognise this, and open ourselves to the fullness of who we are – all we create will be likewise limited!
It takes time, commitment and much work to truly expand our awareness beyond our limited identity entity (that idea in manifestation we call the Personality Self) – for even if we touch our higher consciousness, we must do much self-transmutational work to have this personality vehicle readied to anchor our Higher Self here in an ongoing way – without distortion or harm.
And this preparation is done through the Heart – that is to say through awakening Higher Group Consciousness!
Returning to our theme then…
It is not the Rise of the Feminine, nor of women especially, that will heal and bring balance to the world, no more than it is the Fall of the Masculine that will save us! It is the Awakening of the Heart, of its Love and its Wisdom (neither of which are unique to any gender, sex, sexuality, nation or religion). And it is our awakening to the totality of who we are, that truly has the chance to save us!
The Heart and Love recognises no boundaries, no self-definitions. All is Love, Love is All – All are Loved, by Love! For Love to be Love, it cannot discriminate in any way.
For the Heart is like a Sun, it shines its Love indiscriminately upon all beings.
Just look at young children before they are indoctrinated and programmed by their parents and society – they simply trust and love everyone – this is original innocence, it is how we begin each life.
It is Judgement that is the Problem
Within any person, where there are discriminatory attitudes, and the judgemental ideas that this person or that is not deserving or worthy of Love – then Love is most definitely Not Present – no matter how they justify their stance!
Those that are kind and generous and selfless are easy to love, but those who have temporarily given in to lesser patterns such as hate, cruelty, violence, greed and selfishness etc – are the most in need of Love. If we do not love them, if we do not demonstrate Love and Wisdom and Kindness to them, how will they ever learn these virtuous qualities!? If all we do is mirror their unloving behaviour – judging and telling them they are horrible and not worthy, that they are unlovable – all that happens is the darkness gets reinforced within them, and even worse, now there are two people being unloving in the world – them and you!!
To explore this from an esoteric perspective…
During the Atlantean Root Race, society was matriarchal. The current Aryan Root Race is patriarchal as a result. In the earlier root race humanity learned the Feminine through embodying it as a society, and now in the current root race we are learning the Masculine. However like all things that we learn, we tend to explore them to their extreme before we find the correct, balanced, Heart Based expression of them – the masculine and the feminine are not exempt from this.
We as a collective species have not yet truly awakened the Heart, Universal Love nor Wisdom! We have seen plenty of expressions of the lower elements of our human nature, as we have collectively grown and evolved. Clearly though, we, as a race, have not yet found our third, or balancing point.
However the time is fast approaching when the true Golden Harmony can be found, and we will find that elusive point of Balance between all of our dualities.
Right now, we must find the point of balance for the Masculine and Feminine Duality, if we are to heal our world. The balance lies not in either, but above them both. It is found in that space that holds the Masculine and Feminine within it, the vastness that is the void, the void that is Love Itself.
How do we Embrace the Balancing Principle?
To reach this awareness, to draw from its Wisdom, to become an expression of its Harmonious Balancing Power, is to raise your consciousness beyond even that of the concerned global citizen. One must become identified with their Soul, as their Soul – with the Kingdom of Souls. You must release identification with your physical form, with your emotional nature, with your mind, and in fact your entire identity entity that we call the Personality Self! You must identify beyond the frock you wear this lifetime. Instead, you must reach into the void within yourself and find the silent voice of universality, the Divine collective consciousness – far beyond the noise of humanity’s emotional thought-o-sphere – you must find the singular united voice that is Love!
From this space you will easily recognise the struggles of the human plight. You will see the self-perpetuating cycles of limitation, craving, aversion, emotional thinking – the behaviours that create naught but suffering for humanity and the natural world.
Seeing all of this, through this Heart Awakening, you will be powerfully moved to take right action, to help those stuck in this cycling. However be warned, it takes dispassionate fortitude to reach beyond the personality and see the world as it truly is – and thereby knowing which battles to choose.
Genuine Clear Sight is Needed!
Sadly, there are many who incorrectly believe they have experienced a Heart Awakening, and have become swept into incorrect actions – with the best of intentions. Unfortunately they actually perpetuate the very problems they feel compelled to assist in the healing of – this is a by-product of sentimental love (love as most people know it) and lacks true wisdom and clear insight.
Verily, the Clear Cold Reason that is the true keynote of the Heart, evades such people.
The evidence of this is their attachment to and investment in their identity entity – their body, emotions and mind!
A clear evidence that a person has genuinely awakened (at least some elements of) Heart Consciousness, is their focus upon benevolence, service, higher group consciousness and striving for true harmlessness – in all intentions, decisions and actions.
The lack of these virtuous qualities is evidence that the person’s awareness is still anchored in their lower self – that is, their lower mind, their emotions, and the chakras beneath the diaphragm – and most definitely not their Heart!
To round out the clear awareness of the Heart we must understand that the Heart is a collective organ, connected to all others. We must use the art of correspondences and co-measurement to understand what this means for us in life. It means we are diminished when we embrace separative consciousness. Therefore, as the Hearts of all are a collective, so too must we mirror this into the physical, and work as part of a group, in a group enterprise.
To dive even deeper…
The Enlightened Beings that guide Humanity only work directly with groups, for it takes a group to anchor Divine Energies. An individual is not enough, two are not enough, three is still questionable, but as a Base of Power is foursquare and true, it has the ability to ground the power of the Divine – anchoring it solidly.
So as the Masters work collectively, as a group, as a Heart – so too must we!
The Divine Plan therefore, cannot be seen and received as an individual alone. Just as we cannot fully awaken our Heart and therefore achieve self-mastery alone. So to carry out a part of the Plan, to have the greatest chance of your work being aligned to what is needed for the evolution of humanity and our world, one cannot work as a separative individual.
Darkness works through the principles of divide and conquer, fostering always separative individualism – to stand therefore against the Darkness, to stand unwavering in the Light, one cannot do this alone!
So if we are to stand for Love, for Light, to be a Base of Love – we must function as a Heart. We must find the group that our Soul belongs to, and therein to work as an integrated part of the whole. Bringing our unique note into the choir of Love!
Love Love, Universal Love!
To be continued…